My psychologist delivered a letter in writing to my agencies (my social worker and CLBC) but it seems they are ghosting both of us. One year ago it was agreed upon that this was always going to be temporary placement. Now they seem content on making me stay and suffer for long enough until my next eviction.

My roommate being evicted is evidence that my social workers are trying to find any way to evict someone such as not warning about medication changes or trying everything to upset me, like using triggering language that you should "blame yourself" for being "too needy."

They also use tortious interference to make sure outcomes do NOT come out in your favor. I was going to get another basement suite a year ago, but tortious interference said "but you can get more money if you sold this on the market" THE SECOND I was happy with moving into the place. Same with being accused of arson. "Oh yeah, our clients set fires all the time."

#aspie #aspielife #mutualaid #EmergencyAid

Currently, both official support and peer support are all ghosting me. I have spoken to a local MLA and they have also given up on me. Past donations have helped immensely to ease the tension and has currently resolved a lingering bill payment date issue, but more help is needed.

My friend has become a hermit because his own government checks aren't arriving fast enough to fight back at his friends that are loan sharking him. I need enough to survive until Wednesday. Kofi should arrive faster than GoFundMe because I've noticed delays when not using Kofi.

$50 would go a long way, since I live in one of the cities with the highest cost of living in Canada.

#aspie #aspielife #mutualaid #EmergencyAid

I fully understand why support for me has basically died. I became enveloped in toxic thoughts because of my situation and aired a grievance far too publicly. At least sympathize that I am currently filled with immense guilt that I even said something so distasteful and I was previously leading into being driven to insanity to even say that in the first place.

Time and patience are not working in my favor. As newfound friends also ghost me, I am pretty much self fulfilling prophecizing being abandoned then going insane enough again to have a police incident and potential suicide attempt.

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if an emergency event doesn't claim my life as a self fulfilling prophecy, I would still wish nothing more than to enter a coma and never wake up, being declared brain dead. I don't even care if I forget to register as an organ donor after my brain death, because I won't be able to feel anymore.

If everyone gives up on me, I may as well "just die" like the "guess I'll just die." meme.

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Internet paid. Thanks to all who donated to help make that on time payment happen. It also allowed me to observe a gigantic success on something that I follow which I will not disclose.

Unfortunately my friend tried to get an alternator from a car scrapper and he missed his chance because the one that was available got sold. He said he will now not be able to help anyone until November or later. I officially have no reliable peer support.

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So... apparently I had the wrong CLBC case worker for A YEAR because of catchment changes... and no one told me. So nobody was able to do anything as I was dealing with a case worker that handles the wrong catchment.

Also, I have put up an apology thread as it is very necessary in order for receiving support to continue.

furry.engineer/@JackRacc/11508…

Please forgive me as lack of knowledge of context and extreme frustration at the time made it seem far worse than I anticipated. I am once again deeply sorry.

#aspie #aspielife #mutualaid #EmergencyAid

What better way to celebrate Trans Rights day at home than to be bombarded with a newlywed couple staying off the record at our place as an AirBnB, explaining how you should abstain before marriage, that it has to be cis male marrying cis female, and family is always first, meaning "having real babies," like any good Christian would.

I'm subject to absolute toxicity.

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They're nursing and Netflix and Chilling at 2AM... cutting into the time I need to heat my food.

Not only that, they let so much ice build up on a frozen meal that the rice has turned into paste.

Basically eating prison food at the moment.

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It's extremely unsettling to learn that I'm basically treated like a property investment that makes my landlords money, and not a human being. My psychologist thinks my landlords are purposely ignoring my needs because they can get away with it so long as the money keeps flowing.

I am currently no closer to a solution.

I have also surrendered all my savings to a friend just so they could have a functioning vehicle.

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My landlords decided today that no air conditioning was normal in an attempt to assert themselves as the homeowners by telling me tongue-in-cheek "This is not your house, this is not your kitchen. Your comfort means nothing to us. We just want your money."

I am veering ever so closer to an eviction.

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A song on the radio just told me "Don't be so hard on yourself." and "It's your life."

I wish I had the mental capacity to heal at the moment. If I did, this life advice song would have meaning.

#aspie #aspielife #mutualaid #EmergencyAid #actuallyautistic

URGH. Domain seizure... those bastards.

social.growyourown.services/@F…

Fedi.Tips

2025-09-07 17:51:36

Okay, some really bad news but also a suggestion for a way forward.

The Guppe groups domain name was sold by their registrar before they could renew it. This means all Guppe groups are broken, and their web addresses point to a spam blog 😞

However, there is another group provider called FediGroups, you can find out more on their site:

➡️ about.fedigroups.social/home

FediGroups has features that Guppe never had, including private groups.

(More info about #Guppe situation: github.com/immers-space/guppe/… )

Guppe is dead?

Hey @wmurphyrd 👋 I notice as of September 2025, the domains gup.pe and immers.space seem to have expired and a.gup.pe has been replaced with a WordPress installation full of SEO-targeted content ab...

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once again, here are the important links for this thread. I need this more than ever because my landlords have indicated they are now using passive aggression to weasel me into an eviction.

I would also love to get the $260 I sacrificed to my friend back so that I have buffer money for the worst case scenario of a forced eviction.

North American donations: ko-fi.com/jackvancouver/goal?g…

EU donations: gofund.me/007216f9

#emergencyaid #emergencyaidneeded #emergencyaidneededasap #emergencyaidneededrightnow #mutualaid #mutualaidrequest #mutualaidneeded #aspie #aspielife #actuallyautistic

Just started receiving extortion threats via one of my donation pages. I will not tolerate this and will forward messages like this to the appropriate abuse filing emails.

I'm at my most vulnerable and extortion seems to be what scammers want to do to me. #aspie #aspielife #mutualaid #EmergencyAid

They put in a styrofoam container (WHICH MELTS IN A MICROWAVE) into the microwave to defrost chicken breasts IN IT'S PACKAGING. It's gonna damage the microwave.

Video proof below.

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Again, I can't thank the incoming donations enough, and it will be helpful once it arrives, it's just it's the weekend, and Netflix and Chill with the baby has once again resumed with no end in sight.

Even though fees might eat up most of it, what I need right now are Kofi donations so I can have a pizza to counteract them squatting in the living room and not allowing me to warm my food in peace, as they find my vibe disturbing enough to threaten the baby. (Which could have been avoided if they actually genuinely cared about my mental health, but they don't) #aspie #aspielife #actuallyautistic #mutualaid #EmergencyAid

Social worker made a surprise visit and is hell bent on not making things work with my psychologist, saying "oh they're your therapist, I don't go through therapists."

Government eugenics at work, because I signed papers specifically to make things work with effective communication between my psychologist coordinating everything to better my life, AND SHE STILL SAID NO.

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Living in my city is so expensive. I got $240 in donations. I gave $200 to my friend to make the trip to get his car on Vancouver Island happen. It was then $20 for a meal and $10 for top up groceries. I'm down to $10 again.

Tonight was "housewives meeting" night so I couldn't disturb them at all, and now it's back to 1001% me time well past midnight.

My social worker is still purposely ghosting my psychologist who is actually interested in helping me with logistics for a better life.

It remains to be seen what day my friend will choose to go to Vancouver Island as the person holding the car now works weekdays.

Since it's heading into the weekend, please use Kofi to donate as the other method won't arrive in time to help.

#aspie #aspielife #actuallyautistic #mutualaid #EmergencyAid