@pseudonym

I didn't want sex with my pole ... Giggles

Yeah I could, but that wasn't the point of the poll, I might add gender and do one like that at another date ... Hugz

Hugz & xXx

*This fact set BTW is why I don't like laws criminalizing misgendering people, trans or otherwise. It isn't a matter of my being supportive of bigotry, but it is a matter of my wanting a less litigious & fractured world, because I don't want others arrested nor fined for making mistakes against my husband nor I, nor do I want either of us to be arrested or fined for making mistakes on others.

Some days if this was a law - 6 people in a day would get this penalty over just my spouse & his handsome head of hair & he never finds this error worth more than a quick laugh of his.

I'm autistic & the number of times I've been accused of having "the wrong" or a "nasty tone" is more times than I can count (generally it's due to my being tired or in elevated pain levels & saying "hello" or after 1-3 times of masking words answering "how are you?" honestly), so I repeat, I don't want this speech available as an element of lawfare against poor &/or disabled people.

Aaaaand if it's a choice of accepting nasty comments, which I get anyways over my appearance anyways (generally related to my mobility aid use) or banning the comments & with them the real innocent mistakes, as I'm already getting "lawn too tall" tickets, banging on my door & threats of tickets, I'm sure someone will find a way to sue me for moving my eyes offensively on this too & put words in my mouth, I'll take the nasty comments!

@BrahmaBelarusian
Oh and I get that! I’m also autistic, and while my tone of voice is seldom problematic, I am sometimes misunderstood.

When I say nasty, I mean explicitly so. Like someone questioning my right to use a “ladies toilet”, the intention being to harass and intimidate.

@Susan60 Again, I get false accusations all the time & I'm pretty much continually battling them as it is now, mostly over growing edible plants in my yard & having them called "grass too tall" (as if an onion stalk is really a blade of grass) and am I "really disabled without a phone I can use", more laws aren't going to fix any of that, it'll just give more weapons to the rich & other upper economic classes against those of us without the money or other resources to get attorneys nor readily pay the fines.

To your example:
Should my spouse who's got sizable vision trouble, saying absent mindedly "men's room is over there" before nearly dropping onto a nearby bench from fatigue really get ticketed, because someone thinks his almost falling as he walks is "aggressive"????