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Sometimes it's demoralising how I take steps to safeguard my sensitive data only to have my government deliberately hand it over to US megacorps without my consent.

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activity pub/fediverse might not be as efficient or whatever but i think it has a long life ahead of it because it doesn't seem as vulnerable to political capitulation like all of the corpo socials right now

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@nthia This.

This is why I'm on the fedi and am uninterested in looking at other social media platforms.

It's certainly not perfect, but it's the most enshittification-resistant system I'm aware of.



Working on a simple #web site for a client, and I'm trying to balance keeping it from becoming a bloated mess of unnecessary code, and minimizing the amount of unnecessary work I have to put into it.

For one feature they want, I'm tempted to install #jQuery. It feels like unnecessary bloat, but it makes the process easier. How much overhead does it really add?

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in reply to Jonathan Lamothe

I always go by how much maintenance will be on the other end of anything. If that helps.



ph: blood work
God damn it! I just got turned away from the lab because the card they gave me for the blood work is expired. The doctor wants these tests every three months for the rest of my life, but every nine months I have to get him to re-confirm that he still wants them because reasons.
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the last time i had a blood test at a proper lab place (given my weight) i had to go out of my way for i passed out and then felt bad for like 2 weeks.. i hope yours goes better than that when you do get it
in reply to AdiposeOverclocked

@AdiposeOverclocked Yeah, I have a habit of fainting around needles. It's usually fine if I'm laying down though. The doctor wrote on the form that it's a perpetual thing, but their damn cards expire anyway.

Folks, I promise I'm not just here for kicks.


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I've been agonizing over posting this for like 46 minutes now. It started as a reply to one of @FinalGirl's posts (as we're mutuals and her posts give me a glimpse into a side of Mastodon that I don't normally get to see).

So, the meat of what I want to say is that I'd love to have more Black folx in my day-to-day life. There's so much shit that I'm just not privy to because my circles are hella white...and that's fucked up.

At least on Fedi I get to hear about some of the issues the Black community faces, but I also feel like I can't do much other than *try* not to be one of the problematic white folx while boosting Black voices into my circles.

Why the agonizing? Because I know about the three types of Queer Allyβ„’, and I assume Black folx deal with something similar.

- Type 1 is "okay with you being queer", but will probably vote against you if it lowers the price of eggs.

- Type 2 puts up a "love is love" sign and congratulates themselves on being such a good allyβ€”they might even know some queer folx.

- Type 3 has queer friends and family because it's a normal thing to have, supports them like they would anyone they really cared about, and listens to queer voices in their lives when they say there are problems. They may not always "get it", but they actively try.

The problem is that the ratio of the three is like 100:10:1 (if I'm being *really* generous).

I want to be that third type. I worry that I'm that second type. But I know it's safest for Black folx to assume I'm the first type (or worse) because that's just how the numbers workβ€”especially when the cost of misplaced trust is much higher than the benefit of a potential friend.

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@Retreival9096 the BIPOC folks I follow have mostly gone silent. I don't know if they left Fedi entirely or just don't bother. This place was hostile and when they pointed it out, they were told the equivalent of "it works for me" or "can't reproduce, won't fix".

I reiterate that white people should believe BIPOC people when they report abuse, especially when they have receipts. Don't downplay it or excuse it or be like, "lol switch instances". Report those who abuse, no matter who they are. Tell abusers to STFU or GTFO and fucking mean it.

We are stronger together.



I live very close to a large German club.

As always, It's going to be a long (and loud) October.



Just picked up a $3 "secure" lock from the dollar store. Let's see how long it takes me to get it open. I love how the diagram on the back shows six pins but I can tell by just looking at the key that it's four.


#locksport

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Not gonna lie, this lock is giving more difficulty than I expected. The shape of the key hole is making it difficult for me to get consistent torque, and everything in the lock feels mushy, making it hard to get a feel for what's going on inside.

So far, in my absolute newbie opinion, this $3 lock is outperforming my $10 Master lock. Who'd have guessed?

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Broke down and tried the key, just to be sure I hadn't damaged the inside of the lock like I did my last dollar store lock. It works but feels mushy even opening it with the key. Despite my difficulties defeating it so far, it certainly doesn't feel like a quality lock.
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The biggest problem I'm having with this new lock is that my tension bar keeps slipping like so:


When it does this, it doesn't leave enough room for the pick to move around freely. I've tried a using a wider tension bar, but while it doesn't slip, it also crowds out the pick just on its own.

This is what the key hole looks unobstructed:


Any suggestions on how I should proceed?
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in reply to Jonathan Lamothe

I'm starting to think that the solution is a narrower tension bar. I just don't have one is all, and with the Canada Post strike, I'm gonna have some trouble getting one.
in reply to Jonathan Lamothe

given that keyway, there are three options for good places to tension it.

In order of choice (in my opinion):

Red: a snug fit here should leave the right side and pins free to work with. A turning tool that is too small will slip into a diagonal position as in your photo.

Purple: a prybar turning tool, or short-ended one can be applied here. Just be careful about accidentally binding pin 1 with the turning tool. This leaves the whole bottom of the keyway open to come up from underneath with your pick.

Green: (only because this isn't a split core), you can fit a small turning tool into the bottom corner here. Just be sure you're "turning" the core with your tool, not "dragging" it (since the force will be far off center). This isn't usually a great place to tension, but on small locks with non-split cores, it can leave the whole keyway open for working.

in reply to Jonathan Lamothe

@alice you can tension from the top and use the pick at the bottom if you use a pick with a wee bit of a curve to account for the lower positioning. Most of those picks are called hooks I think
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Just went back to picking my Master lock briefly for a change of pace (and to rebuild some confidence). A thing I hadn't noticed until just now is how small the keyway is on the new lock. I put my pick back in the old one and there's so much room for activities!
in reply to Jonathan Lamothe

It doesn't look like that much of a difference but it really is. I think that "mushy" feeling I was feeling was the resistance from my pick scraping ever so slightly on the sides of the keyway.
in reply to lopta

@lopta I guess it depends on what you mean by "better". I'm having an easier one picking the one on the left.
in reply to Jonathan Lamothe

security through mediocrity πŸ˜‹

Sometimes shitty locks punch way above their weight because they suck too bad to know any better.

It's like the Dunning-Kruger effect for locks πŸ˜‚




Has anyone ever used those "talking buttons" with their pets (especially cats)? Katy's YouTube algorithm keeps pushing them, but it seems kinda Ouija board-esque. To be clear, I'm not afraid of angering spirits or anything; I just wonder how much of it is actual communication and how much is people just projecting their own thoughts onto random button presses.

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I suggest you look at Mary Robinette Kowal's videos with her cat Elsie. They've been using the FluentPet buttons for quite some time.

"Litterbox" is Elsie's swear word. And "rude litterbox" is even worse 🀣

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Just had a recipe call for 3/4 cup + 2 tbsp of water. That's... oddly specific.
in reply to Jonathan Lamothe

@Jonathan Lamothe This commonly is because you want to to use that water in two different places and they don't want you to just measure it all out
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@silverwizard You wuold think so, but in this case, it was just that they wanted a really precise measurement. As @Judy Anderson pointed out, I don't know why they didn't just go with 7/8 of a cup, except that perhaps they didn't expect anyone to have something that could measure in eighths of a cup.

In their defense, my measuring cup didn't have that mark. I just went half way between the 3/4 and 1 cup marks.


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Has anybody had surgery for Carpal Tunnel Syndrome?

I'm due to have it in a couple of weeks, apparently to open up the tunnel in my wrist to put less pressure on the nerves.

Some people I know have been unable to use their hands much for up to ten days, one was OK within a day, so I was wondering what I should plan on.

Fortunately it's only one hand, my right, which I need for some tasks, but I can do more with my left than most right-handed people.

Please boost for reach.

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Plan for a couple of weeks of fair to real pain and discomfort but then prepare to feel almost none. Just get through those first ten days, don't lose hope, do exactly what they tell you. It's a valid surgery and you should have hope of some or major relief
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I was told not to use them for a week, and observed it. No problems whatsoever, no physio actually needed in practise.


Busting out #LibreCAD to design a logo for a client. Every time I use it I have to re-learn how. #AutoCAD has trim an extend commands to trim and extend lines. In LibreCAD, they're both trim for some reason.

I love #FOSS, but sometimes...



Open ai (capitalized like that) has just emailed me from a .ru domain, telling me that I need to update my payment details to continue using their "Premium" service that I never subscribed to.

I'd better get right on that.

in reply to Jonathan Lamothe

i got one the other day that told me my subscription had expired

but it was never specific about what subscription it was or for what product



I love how when PHP fails on this project it just gives me a blank page rather than an any kind of useful error message, essentially "something bad happened, you figure it out."

Also, testing in production is fun. πŸ™ƒ

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@seeh My intent and understanding of the scope was to avoid PHP entirely. It was supposed to be a quick and dirty static site.
@seeh
in reply to Jonathan Lamothe

This is often the use of it. Anyways, you prob know it, there are great and pretty good framework of it.


God, I hate PHP. It doesn't help that I'm rusty because I haven't touched it in over a decade.


Watching a YouTube video about "fake foods" and the announcer was talking about how Velveeta isn't legally considered to be cheese, but "admittedly makes for a great queso".

Umm... who's gonna tell her?

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Also, she was bemoaning ingredient lists getting more "chemically".

Has anyone found anything to eat that isn't chemicals? Photosynthesis maybe?

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Man, those health influencers are legit bonkers.

I like theplantslant. A bit sweary, but down to earth and relatively sciencey.

Also, NutritionByKylie. Very nice recipes and nutrition tips, very sweet demeanor. Very humane.

in reply to Jonathan Lamothe

DHMO is in basically _everything_ that isn't tainted with huge amounts of NaCl.
in reply to Shae Erisson

Aye.

PROLONGED EXPOSURE TO SOLID DHMO CAUSES SEVERE TISSUE DAMAGE. GASEOUS DHMO CAN CAUSE SEVERE BURNS. ACCIDENTAL INHALATION OF DHMO EVEN IN SMALL QUANTITIES CAN CAUSE DEATH.

-- dhmo.org/msds/MSDS-HydricAcid-… (PDF)

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in reply to Jonathan Lamothe

This is basically just a less erudite way of saying "ultraprocessed foods," and that concept still gets taken seriously.
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I think, in American English, "queso" is a type of dip/sauce that is _primarily_ cheese-ish. This is opposed to Spanish (Hispanic or Castilian) where "queso" IS cheese.

But, maybe I've just been beaten down my the internet for being to "prescriptive". In any case, people often use language in ways that don't match my understanding, and it certainly doesn't mean _they_ are wrong/flawed.

(Still, it _is_ funny.)

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@BoydStephenSmithJr absolutely. We all speak our own language, I think, with some tolerance for variance.
Everything outside that is wrong.

I would argue people who speak more than two languages come around to the point that there is no "wrong". Just failure to convey meaning in a particular context.

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@BoydStephenSmithJr
Yeah, it's usually cheese adjacent and white. I can't recall if it's Velveeta or an off brand that sells a melt-able brick of "dairy product" called "queso blanco"

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I need to get more locks. I'm getting too familiar with the one I've been picking over and over. Oddly though, I'm finding that the pins don't always bind in exactly the same order. Is that normal? #locksport
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@Rik KM I figured as much. The thing that was confusing me was the fact that the binding order seems to vary a little from time to time.


Making anything into a curry automatically makes it more delicious.

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I just successfully picked my first lock. It was actually a little scary how quickly I got it open. I can only imagine how quickly someone who knows what they're doing could do it. #locksport

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@silverwizard My father had a thing he used to say that really hits home now: "locks are for keeping your friends out."


YouTube just recommended for us a video about the transit system in the region I've lived in my whole life. It felt weird because the whole thing was footage of familiar places, which is not something I'm accustomed to in a random* YouTube video.

* Okay, not random because YouTube obviously knows where I live and that likely informs their algorithm.

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It seems today is a day where I need to balance the things I need to do to be an adult, and the things I need to do to manage my anxiety. I wish these things weren't so diametrically opposed to each other.

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So, I've recently discovered Tubi. Yeah, it's got ads, and I'm sure it's a privacy nightmare like everything else, but at least my ad-blocker seems to work on it.

This feels like a too-good-to-be-true scenario, which begs the question: what's the catch?

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TONIGHT AT SHAKEDOWN STREET!

Live Simf Jam, SIMF BATTLE LEAGUE OF DEATH! ☠️

#livemusic, #omaha, #synth, #benson, #tob, #synthesizer, #urmom

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I'm just running my own #Mastodon instance here, so I don't have a ton of reach.

I'd love it if any of you who are willing would boost/quote this post.

My current SRE role is coming to an end, and the current market is scary.

The most current project was getting 3 line-of-business applications (for a national retailer!) moved to AWS, with some infra design, and lots of Terraform and Ansible.

I've got some Python chops, too.

I'm looking for a new role, remote preferred, or local to the PDX area.

linkedin.com/in/akulbe

I'd love to get #FediHired

#Portland #PDX

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I've worked directly with Aaron in the past, and found him to be thorough, creative, proactive, customer-focused, skillful, and quick to grok new tools and concepts. Snap him up while you can!

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Hint: since your in PDX, you can increase reach to #Portland #PDX 😁 my hood is #StJohns

Hashtags are incredible.

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Welp, checked the mail to see that we got nabbed by a speed camera. This is the day that keeps on giving. Now I get to figue out how we're going to make rent again. :/

I know it's important to keep traffic under control, but these cameras feel like a cash grab when there are more effective (but less lucrative) methods available.

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CW: religion (ex-Mormon perspective)

So, I don't want to count my chickens before they're hatched, but a freelance job that I should be able to knock out in a night or so may have just fallen in my lap that will hopefully resolve this.

When I was Mormon, I'd have taken this as a sign that I was being rewarded for my faith and obedience. I don't know what it means now that I'm a filthy apostate. πŸ™ƒ

As it turns out, happy coincidences are a thing that happens sometmies.

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I love when the hot water goes out without notice. It's the best. πŸ™ƒ


Severe thunderstorm warning. I wonder if we'll lose power again.


Wouldn't it be nice if Universal Serial Bus were actually universal?


Been thinking about getting into #locksport for a while. I finally picked up a basic pick and a cheap lock from the dollar store (under the assumption that it would be relatively easy to pick). Strangely enough, when I insert the tension bar, the barrel spins without resistance or disengaging the lock.

I know I'm a total newb, but everything I've researched up to this point says this shouldn't be possible. What witchcraft is this?

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in reply to Jonathan Lamothe

that's probably not a pin and tumbler lock - the cheapest locks are warded and you can open them by pushing a button on the inside basically

Like somebody else said, Master 140 is one of the better ones to learn on

I list recommendations here, but the links might be out of date: skullsecurity.org/2019/how-do-…

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@Ron Bowes Yeah, looking at the key and thinking about it for a moment causes me to realize how it wouldn't be able to work in a pin and tumbler lock.
in reply to Jonathan Lamothe

I will second the opinion that you probably picked up a warded lock. They don't have a core like a pin tumbler lock. The keyway will spin freely.
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Picked up a crochet kit from the dollar store. We've never done crochet, but the kit purported to contain all the necessary materials (it does not) and instructions. The instructions are very hard to follow. There seem to be important steps missing.

At this point, I'm going to consult outside sources if necessary, but I'm going to figure this out on principle alone if nothing else.

Spite can be a hell of a motivator.

in reply to Jonathan Lamothe

if this is one of the animal kits from Dollarama, there are mistakes in the instructions. I had great difficulties with the one I bought. There are YT videos with the corrections to make the kit work out. May the spite carry you through.


When Katy and I do groceries, we'll often try a store brand we've never used before if it's cheaper. If we don't like it, we'll usually end up finishing it and just making a mental note not to get it again because I hate wasting food and we're in a position where we have to be very intentional about our cash flow situation.

This relish we just got though... we've decided to make an exception and just yeet it into the sun. It's just not worth punishing ourselves over it.

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trans people are one of the most diverse groups of people in the world and i think that's beautiful. we literally come from all backgrounds and all walks of life

so if anyone ever tries to tell you that trans people are somehow a majority of white people from well off backgrounds please reflect on the picture below and consider that this MIGHT NOT BE OUR DOING

please then also consider that the person with this narrative is trying to erase some of the most vulnerable people on here, and consider why they might be doing that

then walk away from that transphobic bullshit as fast as you can and don't give it any more of your time

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not just selection bias, but also observation bias. The wealthy ones are the most visible because they have time and means to be seen
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There's also like a whole conversation of "transition is for the privileged."

And that's why gatekeeping needs to be pushed back on. Because yeah, traditionally transition HAS only been for the privileged - people who can afford hormones, surgery, etc. People who don't get kicked out of their homes for being queer.

LOTS of people choose to suppress their identities or not medically transition because they can't afford/can't access the care they'd need in order to hit their personal goals.

And of course, those same barriers are the ones that disproportionately affect non-white, non-affluent people.

Gatekeeping ends up ultimately being racist and classist, is what I'm saying.



Question for the #CasioCult:

I'm looking to maybe replace my watch. I currently have an F-91W. I mostly like it but I have two specific complaints:
1) It lacks a timer.
2) The backlight kinda sucks.

I'm looking for recommencations on a new watch. These are my requirements:
1) Resolves the above issues.
2) Must be cheap.
3) Bonus points if I can set more than one alarm.

Also, it doesn't specifically need to be a Casio.

Edit: additional bonus points if I can re-use the strap I got for my F-91W

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I also really like the Casio W-800H. It doesn't come with a countdown timer or 5 alarms like the F-201. But it's modifiable for both. I bought 3 of them back during the pandemic for $12.50 each for me & our boys.

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Coffee is a stimulant, but only until the cup is empty, then it's a depressant.


Cleaning my #FountainPens today. I don't know why, but I frequently have a hell of a time getting all the ink cleaned out of my Jinhao 10. I wish I weren't such a perfectionist sometimes.
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Every time I would take the part of the pen that the converter plugs into out of the ultrasonic cleaner, a little bit of (still quite dark) ink would would drip out.

I finally figured out what I was doing wrong. It turns out that this part is so narrow that the surface tension of the water was causing an air bubble to get trapped inside, preventing the feed from being properly cleaned. I solved it by manually injecting some soapy water with a syringe inside to blow the air bubble out and it cleaned right out afterward.

Still, that's two hours of my life I'm not gonna get back.




One of the more obnoxious parts of the #ADHD experience: the amount of cold toast I eat because I put bread in the toaster and promptly forget that it exists.
#ADHD

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in reply to Jonathan Lamothe

You need a visual or auditory breadcrumb to keep yourself aware of it.
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@VulcanTourist Yeah, the trouble is that I have so many different reminders for so many different things that sometimes just the cues themselves can be overwhelming. 🫠
in reply to Jonathan Lamothe

That can happen, too. How much can attention be subdivided before it collapses entirely?
in reply to VulcanTourist

@VulcanTourist I've kinda settled on a system that sorta kinda works most of the time...ish.

I've been off ADHD meds for a while though, so that makes things more difficult.

in reply to Jonathan Lamothe

They should make toasters out of pyrex, so you never lose sight of the toast.

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Yeah, I've been watching on
twitch.tv/midnightsumo
for a couple years now, and it's a serious distraction. Mostly I show up for the last 4 hours each day, but sometimes watch lower-division which are fun.
#sumo
#sumo


mild inconsequential annoyance
Am I the only one who's annoyed by the fact that it has become common parlance to use the words internet and Wi-Fi interchangably?
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mild inconsequential annoyance

I find it annoying to. It isn't too common that the distinction becomes important, but still!

I guess it's kinda like internet vs. web

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mild inconsequential annoyance
@calvin πŸ›‹οΈ The first time I heard this substitution used, it confused me. Someone was talking about their Wi-Fi bill, and I thought, "wait, that's a bill?"
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