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I just remembered an odd little interaction at my doctor's appointment yesterday.

Nurse: Are you wearing a mask because you're experiencing symptoms of COVID?

Me: No, I’m wearing a mask because I don’t want to put myself at risk of catching COVID.

I seriously don’t know how this is still a question, especially in a medical setting where I think EVERYONE should be wearing masks, even before COVID was a thing.

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in reply to Alice McFlurry

Covid, bird flu, measles, regular flu, seasonal allergies,

Imma mask it, thanks

in reply to Alice McFlurry

To anyone contemplating responding with anything like "your mask protects others, not you"...

I wear a mask for overall COVID precautions—for myself and for others.

But in response to the nurse's question, I was mainly trying to drive home the point that I do not have COVID and I would like to keep it that way.

I know that masks don’t completely protect me from COVID, but they absolutely do provide better protection than not wearing one at all, so I will continue doing so. And, in the process, I will hopefully be able to protect other people around me as well.

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in reply to Alice McFlurry

"Your mask protects others, not you" is a bad faith argument against masking. Because it's actually a slightly inaccurate argument FOR EVERYONE to mask.

"I don't want to get sick so ALL OF YOU should wear a mask so I can go mask-free" doesn't sound quite so good.

in reply to BedastGPT

@bedast It's not just a bad faith argument, it's patently false (I deal with aerosol science professionally so don't @ me...). You mask so that whichever direction the virus particles go, they have to go through a filter (also why free-exhaust masks are a bad idea here). Ideally we'd have better indoor air filtration and fresh air cycling, comprehensive vaccination, and social changes so we don't spend time in crowds. These all cost money and involve cooperation, and some sense of civic responsibility, all of which are offensive to an unfortunately not-insignificant fraction of the public.

Covid made me lose faith and trust in my friends and neighbors. I'm still angry about that.

in reply to Alice McFlurry

@Alice McFlurry A seatbelt does not completely protect you from a car accident either. I'm still gonna wear one though. 🙃
in reply to Alice McFlurry

The question I got when a NP at my endocrinologist's office noticed me wearing a mask was "Would you feel more comfortable if I also wore a mask?"

To me, even that question is bad.

I was the only person in the entire office, be it patients or staff, wearing a mask. I live pretty deep in anti-mask territory so it's not surprising anymore.

At least my primary care doc is good about masking.

in reply to BedastGPT

@bedast It is a bad question. It sounds like they’re trying to be kind, but it basically pathologizes infection prevention. @Alice
in reply to Feisty

@feisty_lemming @bedast
yup. When I was asked "Would you feel more comfortable if I also wore a mask?" (not in a medical setting) I answered "No. Thanks", because I am too polite to say "If you're not masking for yourself, don't bother on my behalf; my respirator protects me just fine, as do the windows I opened."
in reply to fritzoids

Honestly, I don't mind when people ask this, because my mask can't protect me as well as if we're both wearing masks. If I'm worried about contagion, it's considerate for them to care about that, and give me that extra protection. Masks don't just stop you from getting sick. They stop you from making others sick.

CC: @feisty_lemming@mstdn.ca @bedast@beige.party @Alice@beige.party

in reply to BedastGPT

@bedast Also, if they haven't been ventilating or filtering the air in the room before you showed up, what the fuck difference would it make for them to mask up once you're there? The viruses are already in the air!
in reply to Samhain Night

@samhainnight It can help if a health care provider needs to be in your face, like an exam or procedure up close, but otherwise ridiculous. 🤡 @bedast @Alice
in reply to Alice McFlurry

@Alice McFlurry I'm going to go benefit-of-the-doubt here and posit that most people don't wear a mask unless they are experiencing symptoms (and often not even then) and so the nurse wanted to see if that was the case (because that seems an important thing for them to know)?*

Or, you know, maybe not. Who knows?

* Though, if so, they should probably be asking everyone.

in reply to Alice McFlurry

Every time I just want to scream "because we're in the middle of a fucking pandemic!"
in reply to Alice McFlurry

I'm a nurse, and I would interpret this as the nurse asking if you are symptomatic, which is really important to know. Wearing one for prevention has been made such a trigger that medical people are wary of assuming anything...but they do need to know if you are symptomatic
in reply to Lynn Keller

@majordopolis I had already filled out a questionnaire prior to the visit verifying that I had not experienced any symptoms in the past ten days.

I agree that they should be asking everyone that question, but it should not be related to me wearing a mask. They should be more concerned about the people who AREN'T wearing masks.

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