How to get prescribed ADHD medication in the Netherlands, a guide based on real world success:
1) spend over a year repeatedly trying to tell the GP that it’s not going well and you need help. This will not cost you money, only your precious finite time on this earth. It helps if you have a husband to drag you to the doctor when you’re at your lowest and argue with them
2) finally get escalated to a psychologist who takes a few months to be sure there’s definitely something wrong. She will recommend the GP to prescribe ADHD medication
3) Your prescription mysteriously disappears into the system. After several attempts to follow up that take months, and several confused phone calls from your psychologist to the GP, it turns out the GP refuses to authorize it because *shrug* reasons. Maybe if a psychiatrist also signs off on it?
4) You attempt to get an appointment with a psychiatrist. Every psychiatrist in the Netherlands is booked until 2034.
5) Finally, after a dozen rounds of pleading and nagging, you get a mysterious phone call from an unknown number. They give you an address and tell you to be there at 7 in the evening.
6) You find yourself at the door of a historic art deco mansion in the most exclusive district of Amsterdam. There is absolutely no indication that this is a medical practice. You ring the doorbell. Nothing happens. You wait nervously, and try again.
7) The door creaks open. An elderly man wearing crocs stands before you. He silently bids you follow him up a winding staircase to a parlor filled with a thousand thick and aging books in every tongue of the earth and perhaps a few also of the angels. They concern prophecy, and music, and poetry, and the apocalypse.
8) In a thin whisper of a voice barely to be heard, he asks your name, and where you were born. He slowly, very slowly, so slowly that you think you have died and this is purgatory, types this into a computer. It is in his lap because his desk is covered with strange devices beyond identification.
9) He tells you the prescription will be ready for pickup tomorrow.
Cassandra is only carbon now
Unknown parent • • •Chu 朱
in reply to 🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄) • • •I wish I was half as interesting as you. I'm a woman with two engineering degrees who couldn't figure out why nobody was listening to us technical people so I ditched that and did a PhD in communication and studied why nobody listened to doctors and scientists during a pandemic.
So now I'm an expert in why people ignore good scientific information but still have little clue on how to overcome this without a boatload of money and the overthrow of the oligarchy.
ℂ𝕖𝕝𝕖𝕤𝕥𝕖@world: /#
in reply to 🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄) • • •Hey, I'm Celeste, a non-binary/trans* computer toucher who is studying computer science. I'm not really an expert in anything but I've been building a home lab for the last 8 years that is starting to fill up my basement and my office. It's a glorious, well-optimized mess.
I've started programming with the age of 7, am proficient in 8 programming languages, and started home-labbing long before I started studying. I had a lot of time between finishing my high school degree and starting at university during the pandemic to learn math, writing good code, self-hosting, networking, security, etc.
(Don't ask me about my home lab, unless you are prepared for a 6h presentation)
I have worked at a data center before as a (junior) system integrator and just started my first real IT job at a startup, which is building a software solution for managing and monitoring complex IT infrastructures using, graphs, and "AI"™
Jacqueline
in reply to 🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄) • • •gebastel
in reply to 🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄) • • •I don't have a studied yet, but i do stuff with computers, bikes and politics. And I do looooong thinking sessions about society and humans (while always trying to make the live better for every living beeing). Last thing is somehow neurodivergency related ?!
Fried Chicken
in reply to 🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄) • • •Stargeezer Smith
in reply to 🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄) • • •I'm mostly old, turned 80. I'm becoming knowledgeable about arthritic knees, and bruises from blood thinners.
I'm trained in physics, math, computer science, and I've a dusty old MBA diploma somewhere.
My driving interest since I was a kid is astronomy, and I still study it most days.
Luqa 🦄✍️
in reply to 🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄) • • •I am Luqa, or Lucas (Lucaas), or Luke, or whatever name people call me. My reputation as a trans man is just one of the many ways that people see me. Gender is less central to my own existence these days, and more of a reflection that others see in my mirror, and is about the viewer. 🪞
I am discovering more and more about myself than just that I'm a 48 year old mother, grandpa, writer, and activist who had a fine career writing code as a software engineer, who had a long & scary trauma path to arrive here and Now to recognize my own Self in the mirror.
My expertise is related to peace, though I only discovered inner peace even existed 6 months ago - I thought peace was from external sources. It turns out that CPTSD symptoms can become quieter, and I have recently had the privilege of helping others reclaim their imagination from the pain of nightmares induced by the world around us, and the messages we have internalized about our Self, our inner identity. I had only glimpsed hints that this idea might not be a myth, before that.
I have set about learning more about the myriad of paths to inner peace through a healing journey, so that I can help enable others to find this same feeling that I have. It turns out, that most of the people in my world reexperience their trauma on a near constant basis, like I used to. So I get to live my childhood dreams of being a Unicorn that influences the world for good by spreading joy and peace to those who ask for my guidance.
I recently set into motion my plans to expand this healing work, in ways that align with my cognitive and physical disability needs (TBI, EDS, POTS, 20+ more 🧠🦓), and my desire to travel, *without* needing to try to capitalize on this freely offered gift of cooperative emotional labor.
I am currently weighing the benefits of becoming a mushroom guide, and what that will mean for my future. 🍄🦄
#AMA
Clara 🏳️⚧️
in reply to 🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄) • • •Hi, I'm Clara, and I have finally come to accept that I will never be an expert at anything, not nearly to the extent that other people are, but what I do bring to the table are opinions on technology, some humor, and that one YouTube video where I am very clearly not confident about what kind of relationship I want.
Also, I am like a truffle hunting pig for a random facts.
Willow
in reply to 🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄) • • •Hi! I'll join the newbies on this novel-length thread. I'm Willow, "multi-queer," with a PhD in Lit, primarily focused on theater and poetry of the Renaissance/ early modern period. I'm currently teaching a summer writing course on performance theory. I'm not as expert on Women & Gender Studies/ queer theory as I'd like, but I taught a course on bodies a year ago and how they disrupt traditional categories, examining discourse and lit around queer bodies all the way from ancient Greece to #GretchenFelkerMartin
I'm also a sometimes poet/writer, a ttrpg DM, a historical linguistics and conlang nerd, and an amateur mushroom hunter and forager (though nothing like an expert). My gf and I are also pretty expert in movies from the 30s through 50s, from the awe-inspiring to the awful! (Shout out to my recent terrible idea to do "the wives of Cary Grant" double feature: Dream Wife and My Favorite Wife... do not watch!)
Juniper likes skunks
in reply to Willow • • •@willowwren
What kind of conlang nerdery do you get up to?
@alice
Willow
in reply to Juniper likes skunks • • •I started inventing languages for dnd and I guess I've continued to do that ever since...I just invented a quick conlang (and writing system/font) based on Phoenician as a foundation for the Tyr area of the Dark Sun campaign setting from the 90s as part of the game I'm planning using the old DS materials with the Mythras system. I invented a Hyperborean language and writing system for my old Call of Cthulhu game. I've invented numerous partial or extensive languages for various writing projects at varying levels of completion. Eventually one of them will hopefully see print. I enjoy not only building and exploring various systems of meaning-making (ie grammar) but evolving the languages from proto-languages algorithmically and having related language families. I was thinking i might post the Tyr one to the Dark Sun reddit soon. Thanks for asking, and hope that was interesting!
Kim Possible
Unknown parent • • •@raphaelmorgan Oh, great question. You can retain your expertise on the vinification side of things: the science of growing grapes and making wine.
The other side is keeping up with the current number and quality of wine houses, and each vintage for each region. Only with this continuous knowledge can you say, for instance, that Paul Hobbs is currently the best California Cabernet. (Is it now? Who knows?) Weather can ruin a whole harvest. Wineries, especially in California, often go broke, and you have to change your recommendations accordingly.
Also, you need a sharp memory to keep it all in your head, including updated information. At the same time (in fine dining) I had to keep up with the latest buzz on small batch bourbons and single malt scotches and whatever trends were hot, like more potato-sourced vodka than grain-sourced.
Morgan ⚧️
Unknown parent • • •Morgan ⚧️
in reply to Kim Possible • • •Kim Possible
in reply to Morgan ⚧️ • • •Zemri
in reply to 🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄) • • •Hi! I'm Emri!
I'm agender and pan
I'm a nurse and super passionate about supporting and teaching health literacy in the general public (God knows we need it)
That's my only "professional" info dump topic.
Nonprofessional topics are crochet and pokemon:)
Willow
Unknown parent • • •Christy Marx Rambling Writer
in reply to 🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄) • • •I'm a plain old White cis woman.
My areas of expertise are cats, writing for comics, writing for animation, writing for games, fantasy & sf.
2something
in reply to 🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄) • • •Juniper likes skunks
in reply to 2something • • •Shdwdrgn
in reply to 2something • • •Eternal little vampdoll 🏳️⚧️
in reply to 🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄) • • •Dana
in reply to 🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄) • • •Dr. Camille
in reply to 🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄) • • •Hi! I'm a bisexual trans woman, I've got a PhD in compilation and I'm an expert in dynamic binary modification and memory safety related stuff. I did all my shenanigans in Rust and I'm knowledgeable in most mainstream languages from system to web.
Speaking of language I'm also a polyglot, fluent in French and English, solid intermediate in Portuguese and Norwegian. I also have good foundations in German, Italian, Japanese and Russian. Each time you complain I learn a new language.
Don't ask about jellyfishes, for your own safety 🪼
I'm trying to find an interesting remote job in compilation related stuff and escape the consulting hell
Jonathan Lamothe
in reply to Dr. Camille • •@Dr. Camille
I haven't contributed to this thread because I'm not the demographic @🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄) was asking for input from, but you can't say something like that and then expect me not to ask. Safety be damned.
like this
🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄) and Dr. Sobek like this.
Dr. Camille
in reply to Jonathan Lamothe • • •Dr. Sobek
in reply to Dr. Camille • • •So Box::new(jellyfish) is unsafe in Rust, right ?
Dr. Camille
in reply to Dr. Sobek • • •Dr. Sobek
in reply to Dr. Camille • • •Shouldn’t we file an issue with rust-lang (next April 1st) ?
(Added to my calendar)
Gwen
Unknown parent • • •3Jane Tessier Ashpool
Unknown parent • • •Gwen
Unknown parent • • •3Jane Tessier Ashpool
Unknown parent • • •Gwen
Unknown parent • • •Gwen
Unknown parent • • •3Jane Tessier Ashpool
in reply to Gwen • • •Gwen
Unknown parent • • •@3janeTA My longtime favourite is shortbread cookies.
1 Cup Flour
1/2 Cup Icing Sugar
1/2 Cup Corn Starch
3/4 Cup Butter.
Mix the dry ingredients
Add soft butter
Scoop into balls
Press with a fork
Bake at 300 degrees Fahrenheit for 18-20 minutes, or until just slightly golden around the edges.
My favourite singular creation is a raspberry lattice pie though. I brought that to Easter dinner with my then girlfriend, and it was more popular than Grandma's apple pie.
3Jane Tessier Ashpool
in reply to Gwen • • •@pewterdragon I made them and they’re very good. Thanks!
3Jane Tessier Ashpool
in reply to Gwen • • •Gwen
in reply to 3Jane Tessier Ashpool • • •3Jane Tessier Ashpool
Unknown parent • • •Iris
in reply to 🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄) • • •LaLaon
in reply to 🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄) • • •I'm also quite good at knitting!
Full Metal Archaeopteryx
in reply to 🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄) • • •Sensitive content
Hello, my name is Del
Back in the last century (well, also at the start of this one) I used to be a Master Training Specialist
I retired from that role, but fuck 'em, I still claim that identity
Now, as it happens, I am an instructor once again
I won't claim to be the best, but I do have a significant, positive impact upon the people who enter my classroom, so there's that
My hobbies include reading, repairing things once broken, and inventing new ways to break my computers
I am currently hiding in my closet (seriously, my office is a small walk-in closet), but taking baby steps toward transition
I also write on occasion. when the depression lets up enough for me to do so
I could go on, but there is ice cream melting in the other room, and I must needs to rectify that unfortunate situation
Syntaxxor 🏳️⚧️
in reply to 🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄) • • •Late Night Defender 🏳️⚧️
in reply to 🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄) • • •TechTransThai
www.techtransthai.orgMaya Zimmerman
in reply to 🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄) • • •Kit Bashir
in reply to 🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄) • • •Alison
in reply to 🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄) • • •Dawn Tåke 🌙
in reply to 🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄) • • •Hey hey,
I'm Leia, a trans, pan gal. I've got my MLIS, which is a log set of letters to say I'm a librarian. My forte is in genre fiction, (sci fi and fantasy,) because that's what I like.
I'm also a very advanced amature computer toucher. Running Linux, got my own server, etc. I'm the one everyone at work comes to before calling IT.
I've also been really into photography and photography equipment recently. My being cheap is the main thing keeping me from making a lot of regrettable purchases from goodwill. As it is I have a fungusy lens older than me and a younger one that smells like its been sitting for a while in the bottom of an outdoor ashtray.