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Just did some #teeline (shorthand) practice. Looking at what I'd written, you might think I'd suffered a stroke or something, but that's more or less what it's supposed to look like.

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Hi everyone. My wife and I are trying to raise money again to hopefully get us out of the cycle of perpetually borrowing against our paychecks and from friends and also to get things like groceries, gas, and my wifeโ€™s medication.

My wife had a rough transitional period between jobs after leaving a job that wasnโ€™t paying them properly (i.e. they went an entire month without pay) which is what got us to this spot of constantly borrowing money and owing it back to people as well as taking advances from their paychecks.

Weโ€™re hoping to raise roughly $600 as that is what my wife has estimated will help us out of this mess. Iโ€™m a full time student so I donโ€™t make very much money myself, so anything helps. We currently have no money for groceries or gas.

You can send money to help us with the following information:

Cashapp: Bxnshy

Venmo: Bxnshy

PayPal: payment@rubymayvalentine.net

I also have Zelle which would be a preferred option if you also have Zelle and are willing to DM me to exchange numbers so that you can send funds through Zelle since there are no platform fees associated with it.

#Crowdfund #TransCrowdFund #help

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So I've decided that I'll be giving my business to my local(ish) fountain pen store instead. It's a bit of a drive, but I prefer to support local businesses where I can.
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Oh God,

I'm back on the Goulet Pens web site.

I'm normally pretty non-materialistic, but this never ends well for my wallet.



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Oh God,

I'm back on the Goulet Pens web site.

I'm normally pretty non-materialistic, but this never ends well for my wallet.


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Is there a large #FountainPens community on the fedi?

Anyhow, I have a dedicated blue #Lamy Sarafi that I used to use for my #BaystateBlue ink, because it's notorious for permanently staining everything it comes into contact with. A while ago, I accidentally let ink dry out in this pen, and I haven't been able to get the feed flowing properly since. I've cleaned the pen several times and left everything soaking in water for several hours on a few occasions. I've also tried changing the nib. Eventually, I just emptied it, cleaned it out, and left it sitting on a shelf for a while.

I recently pulled it out again, cleaned it once more, and inked it up. Same problem. I'm going to leave it sit inked for a bit to see if maybe capillary action will eventually set in, but if this doesn't resolve the issue is there anything else I can try? I can always replace the pen, but I'd rather not if it can be avoided.

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So someone elsewhere recommended soaking in a 10:1 water:vinegar solution. I've considered this, but don't know if it'll damage the feed. Thoughts?
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no, vinegar wonโ€™t damage the feed. But Iโ€™m not really sure it will help in this case. If you want something stronger than normal pen flush, try Rapido-eze. Itโ€™s designed for technical pens and can clean out some stubborn particles.
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@paradoxmo I've heard mixed responses about pen flush. Many have stated not to let a pen soak in it.
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if itโ€™s standard ammonia-based pen flush, you should not keep the nib or the barrel submerged in it. You should fill the pen with it like you would with ink, and leave it there overnight. This is different than soaking.
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@paradoxmo Ohhhh! That's the part I wasn't understanding. I was just running it through the pen.
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vinegar is pretty safe in general and you can always dilute it. I think the safari has a plastic feed, too.

if it were me I would use a little dishsoap and an old toothbrush first and try to get into the feed's nooks and crannies. if the suds turn blue, it's working

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@Nick Oh, there's an idea. I might give that a go if I can find an old tooth brush.
@Nick

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So my sister is confident that she can fix the bag mentioned in this post. Dropping it off with her. In the meantime, I've had to distill its contents into the absolute essentials and transfer them into a smaller bag for the day.

It's weird, but it'll do for now.


I've known I have #ADHD since I was first diagnosed in high school, but sometimes I wonder if perhaps I might be somewhere on the #autism spectrum as well. Let me explain a thing that's going on right now to illustrate what I mean.

I have a canvas messenger bag. I've had it for years and love it. I keep my whole life organized in this bag. Everything has a place and I know exactly where everything is. Recently, one of the snaps that holds it closed gave out. Within a couple of days the second one went as well, so the bag just falls open, which is fine if I keep it upright, but is kind of a pain in the ass.

The place I got it from essentially has a lifetime guarantee. I'm sure I can trade it in for another "equivalent" bag, but I'm sure they won't have this exact one since it's been several years since I bought it. This causes me an enormous amount of anxiety, because the new bag will be different, and I won't just instinctively know where all its contents are (because the configuration of the internal pockets will likely be at least a little different). It's not just the act of replacing the bag, but knowing that it'll mess me up for weeks afterward too.

I feel like this dilemma could possibly be explained by ADHD alone, but I kind of wonder...

Does this resonate with anyone in the #ActuallyAutistic crowd? I am of course not looking for a formal diagnosis or anything. It's more of a curiosity.


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Just got it back. Holy shit! You'd never know anything had ever been wrong with it. One of the snaps is a little stiff, but that's a problem that will solve itself in time.

I have the greatest sister ever!

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nerdy showerthought
A device only connected via wifi/bluetooth is technically air gapped.


I love living so close to a major Oktoberfest venue. For the past 10 minutes or so, someone's been screaming at someone else, over what specifically, I don't know. I can only make out bits and pieces.

My favourite was "you can't talk like that to me!" My friend, I don't know who said what to you, but I think you've waived your right to complain about that at this point.


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Busted out my old fountain pens and ink from storage. I'd forgotten how much I enjoyed them, but was subject to the eternal curse of the fountain pen enthusiast.

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And yes, among the other colours you see there, that is the infamous Baystate Blue.

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My latest cartoon for New Scientist

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another autism question

Another question in the "is it just #ADHD or is there some #ASD in there too" series:

I've recently learned that some people with autism have a tendency to repeat back phrases verbatim when people talk to them before answering.

I do not think this happens to me (at least not with words I hear) but I do have a tendency to do this with written text, stuff on billboards when we're driving, that sort of thing.

I have no idea why I do this. It's not like it's everything I see either. It's just sort of a compulsion that occasionally strikes for no apparent reason. Is that a thing that makes sense to anyone, or is it just me? I guess I just write it off as a weird thing my mind does when it wanders.

#ADHD #asd

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Pyramids (Discworld) - slightly spoilerish

"โ€œIโ€™m here to rescue you,โ€ said the demon.

The man peered up at him.

โ€œRescue?โ€ he said.

โ€œYes. Why are you here?โ€

The man hung his head. โ€œI spoke blasphemy against the king.โ€

โ€œHow did you do that?โ€

โ€œI dropped a rock on my foot. Now my tongue is to be torn out.โ€

The dark figure nodded sympathetically.

โ€œA priest heard you, did he?โ€ he said.

โ€œNo. I told a priest. Such words should not go unpunished,โ€ said the man virtuously.

Weโ€™re really good at it, Teppic thought. Mere animals couldnโ€™t possibly manage to act like this. You need to be a human being to be really stupid. โ€œI think we ought to talk about this outside,โ€ he said. โ€œWhy not come with me?โ€

The man pulled back and glared at him.

โ€œYou want me to run away?โ€ he said.

โ€œSeems a good idea, wouldnโ€™t you say?โ€

The man stared into his eyes, his lips moving silently. Then he appeared to reach a decision,

โ€œGuards!โ€ he screamed."

โ€” Terry Pratchett: Pyramids

I know this is meant to be humorous, but damn...

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Looking into getting into matcha. My god there are so many variants.

I am in over my head.


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FINALLY! Open-source LIVE CAPTIONS for your Linux desktop that run locally! No internet connection, no spyware!

github.com/abb128/LiveCaptions

FUTO is a company that grants young developers means to build awesome tools like this one. Tools that help digital sovereignty.

futo.org/projects/

All I need now is a model that will translate all the Russians in #CounterStrike for me ๐Ÿ˜

#Accessibility #HearingAid #Deaf #FUTO #FreeSoftware #FairSoftware #MachineLearning

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I couldn't figure out if the training data for the model was ethically sourced or not. I hope so.

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"Terry Pratchett's entire bibliography conveniently stored within your device, a delightful treasure trove of whimsical adventures that fits snugly in your pocket! Each book is available in the universally friendly EPUB format, making it seamlessly accessible on Kindle, eReaders, iPhones, iPads, laptops, and beyond."

thrillerandhorror.com/productsโ€ฆ

#Books #SFF #TerryPratchett #EPUB #Ebooks

@libreture

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I keep getting "This site can't provide a secure connection" when I try to look ๐Ÿ˜ญ
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@_L1vY_ @libreture: That's odd as they host their site with Shopify, one of the largest if not the largest "online shop as a service" provider. (Which btw. is IMHO a plus wrt. to reputation as all the money handling is done by a well-known service provider with a rather good reputation.
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@_L1vY_ @libreture: The error message says that your phone and the server can't talk the same encryption algorithms.

The server only seems to allow the TLS 1.2 and 1.3 versions. TLS 1.1 and earlier do not workโ€”which IMHO is ok nowadays.

Any chance that this is an older phone with an older OS? (Older as in older than lets say 8 years? TLS 1.2 is in use since 2008 and TLS 1.1 was deprecated in 2021. Maybe Android โ‰ค 7?)

Do you have more and more often similar issues with other sites?

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@_L1vY_ Try this link. thrillerandhorror.com/productsโ€ฆ @xtaran @sohkamyung @libreture
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@_L1vY_: That's at least a possible reason. A phone from 2018 though should though be able to connect with TLS 1.2.

You can test this. If you can't connect to the first, but to the second, we've found the issue indeed.

This subdomain and port only supports TLSv1.2
tls-v1-2.badssl.com:1012/

This subdomain and port only supports TLSv1.1
tls-v1-1.badssl.com:1011/

Another more detailed way is to visit clienttest.ssllabs.com:8443/ssโ€ฆ

(All from security.stackexchange.com/queโ€ฆ)

Cc @Pineywoozle @sohkamyung @libreture

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@_L1vY_ I get the same with my iPhone 13 Pro with the latest iOS and Safari. Not just you!
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@dpiponi @_L1vY_
This is 100% a scam site. It's only been online for a few months, the owners are hidden, they say they're in London, but it's registered in Iceland, they have bot reviews on their home page, and they have reviews dated long before the site existed.

More than likely what they are doing is buying things from Humble Bumble and reselling them to harvest CC data, and in a few months they'll be gone.

I checked Reddit, and other people found the same stuff I did. Most people, and most "trust advisor" type websites suggest doing business there is probably not a great idea.

reddit.com/r/Scams/comments/1cโ€ฆ



story time (long)

Just had the biggest scare of my life.

Some context is necessary. Katy works an evening shift, so we usually sleep in to 10-11AM. She also likes to sleep in absolute darkness, not a single photon in the room. To this end, we've taken drastic measures to ensure that we can have the bedroom very dark, even at noon.

This morning (and I use the term loosely) I woke up to notice that the outlet my phone charger and the nightstand lamp are plugged into was emitting a distinct orange glow. Nothing plugged into it is causing this; it's coming from the outlet itself.

I woke Katy up with an urgent sounding "ummmm". I thought we had a small electrical fire inside the outlet. I ran to the breaker box in the kitchen to throw the breaker for the outlet and grab a screwdriver so I can get into (and hopefully extinguish) the outlet.

Turned off the power and was reaching for the drawer with my screwdriver and Katy says "I think I know what it is."

Turns out, this outlet shares an electrical box with an outlet on the other side of the wall and the sun was shining on it. In the total darkness of the bedroom, the glow I was seeing was sunlight from the other side.

Anyhow, that's how the server abruptly lost power today.



Been getting back into #minetest again lately. Thinking about maybe doing a live stream, just for shits and giggles, but I don't know.


ph, infosec

Aargh! Trying to get a continuous blood glucose monitor, but my pharmacy doesn't carry any that have a standalone reader. They all need to be paired to your phone with some proprietary app. There's no way in hell I'm forking that kind of data over to a black box that probably feeds it into some corporate cloud.

There are standalone meters on Amazon, but I doubt I can get my insurance to cover it if it's not coming from a pharmacy.

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Thought I was maybe starting to become somewhat proficient with the #soroban. Then I saw this.

youtu.be/s6OmqXCsYt8

At least I know how proficient it's possible to become.


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question about ADHD vs. ASD

I've known I have #ADHD since I was first diagnosed in high school, but sometimes I wonder if perhaps I might be somewhere on the #autism spectrum as well. Let me explain a thing that's going on right now to illustrate what I mean.

I have a canvas messenger bag. I've had it for years and love it. I keep my whole life organized in this bag. Everything has a place and I know exactly where everything is. Recently, one of the snaps that holds it closed gave out. Within a couple of days the second one went as well, so the bag just falls open, which is fine if I keep it upright, but is kind of a pain in the ass.

The place I got it from essentially has a lifetime guarantee. I'm sure I can trade it in for another "equivalent" bag, but I'm sure they won't have this exact one since it's been several years since I bought it. This causes me an enormous amount of anxiety, because the new bag will be different, and I won't just instinctively know where all its contents are (because the configuration of the internal pockets will likely be at least a little different). It's not just the act of replacing the bag, but knowing that it'll mess me up for weeks afterward too.

I feel like this dilemma could possibly be explained by ADHD alone, but I kind of wonder...

Does this resonate with anyone in the #ActuallyAutistic crowd? I am of course not looking for a formal diagnosis or anything. It's more of a curiosity.

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re: question about ADHD vs. ASD

@Diligent Circle ไธธ Good to know. I was unaware of the other hashtag. Thanks for bringing it to my attention.

As for how I identify, I guess my answer is... I don't really know. I have however learned a lot from the autistic community on the fedi, and am grateful for that regardless of my status.



religion: Mormonism

Just ran into some #Mormon missionaries in the wild. It's always interesting when they try to strike up a conversation with me.

[...small talk...]
Missionary: So, do you know much about our church?
Me: Yeah, I actually had my records removed back in 2019.
[awkward scilence followed by an abrupt change of subject]

#NotACult



I know I'm late to the #Friendica channels party, but the "Quiet Sharers" channel is really quite nice. It only shows posts from accounts you follow that aren't frequent posters, helping you to find stiff you might otherwise miss.

This is how to do an algorithmic feed* right.

* Yes, I know that sorting posts chronologically is technically an algorithmic feed.



meta: regex filters

So, I like to set filters that automatically collapse certain posts that I may or may not have the mental bandwidth to engage with at any given time. Friendica lets me do this by regex, but some of them are kinda ugly

Take my Elon filter for instance. I could filter on /elon/i, but that would falsely trigger on common words like 'melon' or 'belong'. I finally settled on /^(.*[^a-z])?elon([^a-z].*)?$/i, but that feels overly complicated. Is there a better solution?

Edit: proofreading is for suckers.

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Once again, for the people in the back: we don't build back doors because there is no way to build a back door that only good guys can walk through, motherfuckers.

wsj.com/tech/cybersecurity/u-sโ€ฆ

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it's simple, just make someone pinky promise that they're not going to use the backdoor for evil. Everyone knows bad guys don't pinky promise.
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we'll just put the backdoor in the same vault they kept the CSS DVD key. Sorted.


Oh no! I've made more hummus than will fit in the storage container I was going to store it in. I guess I have no choice but to bust out some veggies and eat some. Whatever shall I do? ๐Ÿ™ƒ


So, my bank just required me to set up 2FA, which is fine... except that they did not give me any recovery codes. Nor have they provided me with any obvious means to obtain any.
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Have confirmed with them that recovery codes are just not a thing they support. Why are banks so consistently terrible at infosec?
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Oh hang on, it gets better.

Apparently signing into the app on my phone using biometrics seems to bypass 2FA. ๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™‚๏ธ

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My bank required me to set up 2FA. Via SMS. Only method available! So I did, but I wrote to an old friend (who happens to be their chief data architect) explaining why SMS was not the way to go. She spoke to somebody, and sure enough they soon grew the ability to use an authenticator TOTP in addition to SMS. Only issue now is: NO WAY to remove SMS as a valid method.

At least it doesn't reject a GVoice number, which is way safer than a real SIM-based phone in the wild.



I will not comment in that thread. I will not feed that troll.

...no matter how much I might really want to.

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@R. L. Dane :debian: :openbsd: I really don't want to look it up again.

The gist of it was that neurodiverse people should stay hidden and avoid drawing attention to themselves because there are bad people out there who would do them harm.

They seemed genuinely surprised that people took offense to this.


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"A doctor has issued a stark warning that the XEC variant of Covid-19 could bring back the dreaded masks and social distancing"

idk man maybe the thing to dread is the debilitating airborne blood plague, not the act of putting on a fucking mask. maybe this attitude is exactly why things are turbofucked right now

archive.is/kW6FZ

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I will do whatever it takes, and I'm already vaccinated. We need only worry if the disease can defeat our defenses...
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@eniko
> maybe the thing to dread is the debilitating airborne blood plague, not the act of putting on a fucking mask

Hey another time traveller! This time from 2020.

You'll be pleased to learn that after 4 years of mutation, what people in your time quaintly called "COVID-19" now comes in forms that are much more infectious, but much less lethal. Most people who get the 'rona report a bad 'flu, and some people get it without even noticing!

Honesty, it really is safe to go outside now.




Does #Haskell's microlens-platform really not have a function of type Int -> Lens' [a] a?

That seems an odd omission.

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Someone has submitted a working turing machine to Lego Ideas and I'm loosing my mind over how cool it is: ideas.lego.com/projects/10a323โ€ฆ #lego
#lego
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on the risk of being drowned in trash, did any good anime come out in the last 3 years? (besides Frieren and Konosuba S3)
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@nina_kali_nina no but like, I don't understand this sentence as in, I cannot parse the meaning behind the supposed used of the english language
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I think you'll be able to parse the sentence after you watch E1, but yeah, I've seen at least one more synopsis like this and it felt like it was written by a Markov chain
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it's basically a very entertaining show about teenage show-biz in Japan, with a sprinkle of Shinto


Is anyone else having problem with a really slow transfer rate to their #Hetzner file storage?



So my local big box store has been selling a brand of chips that I haven't seen since the 80s. They're definitely playing on people's nostalgia, and I'll be damned if it hasn't worked on me every single time.

Edit: accidentally duplicated a word

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๐š๐š’๐š ๐šŒ๐š˜๐š–๐š–๐š’๐š --๐š‹๐šž๐š-๐š”๐šŽ๐š™๐š-๐š๐š’๐š—๐š๐šŽ๐š›๐šœ-๐šŒ๐š›๐š˜๐šœ๐šœ๐šŽ๐š
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Why do peoole hate .csv files so much? It's a dead simple format that can be read by a ton of software.
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Also the quoting rules vary, line & row limits, space trimming, how decimals are represented, header or no headerโ€ฆ

There's an RFC but I expect more non-conformant files than conformant.



ph: medication

I'm now on so many meds with such complicated rules about when and how to take them that working out a medication schedule kind of feels like solvong the wolf, goat, cabbage problem.

I guess that's just what it's like to get old.

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Turns out all my new doctor's records are in "the cloud". Had an appointment today but their internet was down so he was forced to use pen and paper.

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