@autistics
Dear non-autistic folk, AKA (also known as) allistic's. It's that time of the year again. Autism awareness month. That time when you can become aware of autistic's, raise some money and generally show your worth by acknowledging, if nothing else, our existence. Good on you. Although, I suppose it may come as a bit of a shock to know that we don't actually want awareness.
Awareness can and has been historically, "look at their difference," closely followed by "stone them, burn them, they're a witch". Or, being left to die alone in the woods, because they think that you are a changeling and have taken their beloved child. Or simply hearing someone telling a parent, or carer, "Oh, look at them, they are so special. That must be so hard for you, looking after them, I couldn't possibly do that". Or from someone, "but you don't look autistic, I know what autism looks like" and dying a little more inside. Not to mention, in this day and age especially, that we often have minds that see the patterns of the future writ large upon the wall in blood and knowing it will be our blood if the wrong people are only just aware of us and want to use that politically.
So no, we don't want awareness. Awareness is, at best, thinking that you know us, that you can see us. Awareness is feeling good about acknowledging our existence, not our lives. What we want and need is understanding. Understanding that we are different, not less than, or greater. That our minds and senses and bodies work differently to yours. That we have different needs and abilities and challenges. That the world you have made, is, in so many ways, difficult, if not impossible for us and that it is the reason why we so often struggle, or can't cope and not because we are deficient in some way. That we are not missing something (which is why most of us hate the puzzle symbol), or broken, or anything other than just different.
A difference that can't be seen from the outside looking in. By studying us from your point of view, or judging us by your standards. It has to be explained and understood by us telling and showing you. By us sharing our experiences, and knowledge and understanding. By working with us and not in spite of us. Because as minorities have called for throughout the ages, there should be nothing about us, without us, not if you want anything to be in any way meaningful, or true.
Only by truly understanding this. By learning to listen and value our opinions and stories, will you begin to understand and finally grow into where we really need you to be. Accepting us and not just aware of us. Accepting us truly as we are, in all our variety and complexity and not just thinking that you do. So enough of awareness month. Perhaps aim for something better.
#Autism
#ActuallyAutistic
#Audhd
Mark Wyner Won’t Comply
in reply to Fedi.Tips • • •The most important advantage being that you’re not supporting literal nazis. 😉
@molly0xfff
shac ron ₪
in reply to Fedi.Tips • • •Fedi.Tips
in reply to shac ron ₪ • • •@shac
You don't need to be techy to have your own Ghost instance, there are managed hosting providers offering Ghost which will do the technical stuff. I've linked to a couple of these in the guide.
Gator 🐊
in reply to shac ron ₪ • • •@shac Managed Hosting is available, including by the company itself if you don't want to bother looking for cheaper alternatives.
@FediTips
Lou Reynolds
in reply to Fedi.Tips • • •Strypey
in reply to Lou Reynolds • • •@lou
> substack is more of a video service that just a blog / newsletter
Ghost already supports podcasts, if video isn't an option I'm guessing it's on the roadmap. If not, you can definitely host your videos on a PeerTube channel, and throw links into posts in Ghost, creating embeds that are just as good from a web reader POV.
Not sure how video could be sent by email, so sounds like SS is abandoning being a newsletter host, and following the standard VC pivot path.
@FediTips @molly0xfff
Lou Reynolds
in reply to Strypey • • •Strypey
in reply to Lou Reynolds • • •@lou
> They are now allowing creators to do livestreams and then afterwards also host the recorded steams for later viewing. I don’t believe we have anything like this currently in the OSS world
You may have missed my mention of @peertube, which does both of these things;
joinpeertube.org/
Also there's @owncast for livestreaming;
owncast.online/
Not sure if #GreatApe is still going to be a thing, but I IIRR that was intended to be a federated Twitch (@atomicpoet?)
@FediTips
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JoinPeerTubeChris Trottier
in reply to Strypey • • •Lou Reynolds
in reply to Strypey • • •Strypey
in reply to Lou Reynolds • • •(1/?)
@lou
> just because components exist does not make them packaged in a way that non technical creators can or will attempt to use them
Sure, this is true in the abstract. Have you tried PT or OC yourself as a publisher? What did you think? I've only tried PT as a publisher, but I'm pretty fussy about UX, and I found it pretty good.
@FediTips
Petra van Cronenburg
in reply to Lou Reynolds • • •@lou There's another alternative: mastodon.online/@NatureMC/1163…
But it's not "Fediverse".
@FediTips @molly0xfff
Petra van Cronenburg
2026-03-27 10:03:15
hexaheximal
in reply to Fedi.Tips • • •Strypey
in reply to hexaheximal • • •@hexaheximal
> Ghost is now slopware
Why do you say that? After shifting the Disintermedia blog to community-hosted Ghost I have a few grizzles, but overall I'm finding it a great improvement on the bloat of SS.
My grizzles with Ghost;
* hardcoded dependence on;
1) commercial email sender
2) one payments processor
* AP module has to be set up separately (how about a single Docker image that deploys both as an option?)
* no footnotes
#newsletters #Ghost
@johnonolan
@FediTips
hexaheximal
in reply to Strypey • • •Ghost/AGENTS.md at main · TryGhost/Ghost
GitHubPlan-A
in reply to Strypey • • •@Strypey @Fedi.Tips @hexaheximal @John O'Nolan no need 4 a Docker here
Ghost's integration with the Fediverse via ActivityPub is a significant and innovative step, repositioning it as a "distributed social publisher." However, the platform does have limitations that can feel restrictive, validating your "grizzles."
But you can if you wish so. Dockerize it although I would not know why.
Dr. Christopher Kunz
in reply to Strypey • • •Having to rely on Stripe for monetization is a minor issue for me, because that's not my main focus. But why do I have to use Mailgun for transactional e-mail on a blog that will probably have like 20 subscribers? I've run my own mail server for 25 years.
Still, better than WP or SS.
axolotl solidario
in reply to Fedi.Tips • • •kolektiva.social/@hydroponictr…
HydroponicTrash (@hydroponictrash@kolektiva.social)
HydroponicTrash (kolektiva.social)Petra van Cronenburg
in reply to Fedi.Tips • • •For less technical people there's also a #EuropeanAlternative with seat in Germany and compliant to EU laws steady.page I use it for years for my newsletter/blog/instead of Patreon. Meanwhile you can also include audio files. It's simple: you only design your page and write. For creators earning money, you pay a certain % on your wins only. If you don't take money, it's free.
Looks like this: steady.page/en/naturematchcuts…
@molly0xfff
Steady – You create. We take care of the rest.
SteadyTed Lemon
in reply to Petra van Cronenburg • • •@NatureMC
Unfortunately, steady.page has a GDPR cookie banner (FWIW, ghost.io does not).
Unfortunately, ghost.io is not a turnkey replacement for substack: it requires quite a bit more expertise to use.
Also, if you think substack platforms nazis, would you also say that HarperCollins platforms nazis?
Fedi.Tips
in reply to Ted Lemon • • •Ghost can be set up through managed hosting services which do all the technical stuff for you. I have tried this myself, it was very easy 🙂
Ted Lemon
in reply to Fedi.Tips • • •@NatureMC
I have a ghost site. The design is unpleasant. I don't want to spend time learning how to fix it—I'd rather have a default design that isn't like staring into a fluorescent light. There's no federation—I'm on my own. Great if your famous, useless if you're not.
Molly's advice on how to switch over is really daunting. Molly was honest about that, and gave some reasons to switch, one of which was not "they platform nazis." They were good solid business reasons.
Molly White
in reply to Ted Lemon • • •Ghost Themes - The Marketplace
Ghost - The Professional Publishing PlatformTed Lemon
in reply to Molly White • • •They're all glare white. I chose ghost over substack last year because of the "platforming nazis" thing, and wound up not using it, because it was too much design work. I just want to write, not design.
I'm honestly feeling pretty gaslit by the nazi thing. Your criticisms connected for me, but they weren't that. They were about the business end of things.
My reason for persisting on this is that I want to avoid the enshittification, but the effect is I'm not writing.
Molly White
in reply to Ted Lemon • • •Ted Lemon
in reply to Ted Lemon • • •(Feel free to just ignore this—my goal here isn't to give you a hard time, but to give you feedback that may not be useful. Welcome to my brain.)
I went to the site you link from your profile. It isn't obviously a ghost site. If it is a ghost site, it's obvious you've put a lot of work into it, and it looks great. But how much time did you spend on that? How much technical knowledge did you need? Fonts, etc.
Petra van Cronenburg
in reply to Ted Lemon • • •@abhayakara EU regulations require GDPR and EU companies comply with these regulations.
You are completely free to use what you want.
@FediTips @molly0xfff
Ted Lemon
in reply to Petra van Cronenburg • • •@NatureMC
GDPR requires sites to disclose data collection they do that violates your privacy. The GDPR popups are malicious compliance—the whole point is to make us resent GDPR so that we'll ask to get it repealed, allowing them then to collect our private data without disclosing it.
A site that does not collect such data is not required to post such a popup. It's telling that so many sites do.
Gracchus Babeuf Bourguignon
in reply to Fedi.Tips • • •Ghost is infected with Magic Computer nonsense at this stage though.
Lead dev is big into talking to Claude and allowing it free reign on his projects.
Petra van Cronenburg
in reply to Gracchus Babeuf Bourguignon • • •