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religion: Mormonism

Reading through the "Light and Truth Letter" a totally-not-written-by-the-church response to the infamous CES Letter that's been plaguing Mormonism for years now.

It's amazing* how they seem to have managed to not seriously engage with a single one of the issues I have with the church.

#ExMormon #NotACult #CESLetter

* not really

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religion: Mormonism
It's also interesting how they try to point out these logical falacies that some critics of the church do use, and then repeatedly use every single one of them without any sense of self-awareness whatsoever.
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religion: Mormonism, mention of sexual abuse

Wow, I finally got to my "shelf breaker" item: the way the church handles reports of sexual abuse. They actually have the audacity to list "the helpline"* as something that makes people safer.

This is some real Ministry of Truth shit.

Source: lightandtruthletter.org/letter…

* You know, the helpline that has instructed these untrained bishops to not report to the authorities and then move to sweep them under the rug.

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religion: Mormonism
@Katrina Katrinka :donor: Yeah... Dehlin is a bit problematic. He does make for a convenient ad-hominem target though.


Okay, I got my #WEARINGEUL #Enki ink flowing nicely in my #LAMY Safari. It just needed a tiny drop of dish soap applied with a toothpick to the cartridge converter. It's still a really light colour, but I kind of expected that going in.
#FountainPens
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Let's see how this works with the dish soap trick. I actually think it looks pretty nice.

I think it's working nicely. It's still pretty light but I think I like it.


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The Enki ink in action. Am I doing something wrong? #FountainPens
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@Jonathan Lamothe Heard back from the place we got it from (in record time, too). Apparently it works better in a pen that lays down more ink. I have a replacement cap for my TWSBI Diamond 580 on the way, so I'll give it another shot when it arrives.
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This is Wearingeul Enki in a Lamy Safari medium nib.

It's certainly not the darkest colour and it doesn't seem to travel down the feed very well but it is a beautiful colour.

Probably not one I'd use as a daily driver.

Here it is in my dip pen instead [darker colour with some feathering]

I thin I'm having some toruble getting it to run through the feed.

When it does flow, it looksnice though. That said, I find I need to apply more pressure to the pen than I am accustomed to using.

Probably not a daily driver but looks nice anyway.




So, my local-ish pen shop has a collection of these Korean inks (Wearingeul) that I've not seen before. Just bought a bottle of Enki and can't wait to get it home to play with it.
#FountainPens

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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH.../inhales/ HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

youtube.com/watch?v=vuvckBQ1bM…

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ph, griping

So, the Wal-Mart pharmacy has an app that tells you when your prescriptions are due for refilling. Pretty convenient right? Problem is that it's consistently wrong.

Guess I've got to go home and do a physical inventory of my drugs now.

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So much of my job is this over and over again on a loop:

"So what do you think we should do in order to responsibly build the Torment Nexus?"

"You can't. It's a Torment Nexus. Stop it."

"But the Torment Nexus is inevitable!"

"It's not. You could just not do it. You could stop right now."

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"You have been found guilty of murder."

"But, judge, he would eventually have died anyway."

"..."



ph

Well, I guess I have a cardiologist now.

That was not something I was expecting to be a thing this morning.

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I want a "programmer's spellcheck" inside #emacs that gives me warnings when a token in a buffer is unique and a Levenshtein distance of one or two from other tokens in the buffer.

I think that would be decent typo detection.

#idea

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#teeline question:

The word "defund" is tricky, as the way I would expect to write it in teeline would be the same as "defend". I know you can sinetines use a vowel indicator to disambiguate in such circumstances, but the indicators for U and E are identical, aren't they?

I'm not sure this is a case where context would necessarily clear it up either.

Thoughts?




So, while I've always loved the idea of #chess, I've also always been spectacularly bad at it. Can anyone recommend any books or other resources that might help? I had an eBook (or was it a PDF?) on tactics once upon a time, but I don't know what happened to it.

I know that an important key is practice, but the problem is that when I lose, I don't know why I lost, so it's difficult to learn from the experience.

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@conniptions I believe it’s lichess.org.

Building on this: learn to analyse your games using an engine. Only play 5-10 games per day, but analyse each one. At first, look through the game without the engine, try to observe the flow of the game. Try to see if you got outplayed positionally, or you missed a tactic, hung a piece, etc.

Then analyse with the engine. Don’t focus too much on absolute swings of the evaluation, but more on trends.

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@teotwaki Doh, of course yes, apologies, was v tired when I posted.

Agreed in re usefulness of using engine for analysis (and importance of analysing games) once there's a grasp of the basic value of material, basic tactics and so on.

Not yet mentioned - the usefulness of puzzles: simpler puzzles help you drill basic patterns and tactics - it's one thing to know what a fork is, but another thing to look at a position and quickly spot an available fork. Lichess puzzles v good for this.


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Thoughts on Racism and book bans
One of the things I hear about in reference to book bans re: racism is making white kids feel uncomfortable.
I dunno, but... I'm supposed to be uncomfortable with racism. I don't ever want to be comfy with racism.
Being a decent person requires I'm not comfy with things like racism. If racism doesn't make me feel uncomfortable, something has gone wrong with my moral compass and serious self reflection and self improvement would be urgently necessary. 🤷‍♀️

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Tip for the non-ADHD folks who have friend-groups containing large numbers of ADHD folks:

If your feelings are hurt because you feel you've been talked over or ignored or something like that, you need to *tell us*.

There are often things we do unknowingly that can make a person feel unheard or disrespected. We wish it was different. We try to make it different (we're almost all trying to learn not to interrupt), but frequently we depend on being made aware that there is a problem.

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I think a general rule of thumb for maintaining positive relationships with ADHD people is that if you have a problem with something we do, you need to be direct because the chances that we are not aware that we're doing the thing or we are not aware that the thing is affecting you are pretty high.

We work really hard at being aware of ourselves and the people around us, but it is *work*. When we're just relaxing and having fun, we may especially be likely to not notice.

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Not noticing and not caring are not the same thing, especially when your attention is an unruly little bastard that does what it wants.


rant about lies and masking

Some people's capacity to just straight-up lie to your face without skipping a beat astonishes me.

Take this conversation between Katy and an unnamed family member:

F: I need you to drive me to the clinic (because I've caught the cough that's been making the rounds in my household for weeks now).
K: Okay, but we can't afford to get sick.
F: It's okay, I'll wear a mask the whole time.
K: Okay.
F: Afterwards, we can go out to eat.
K: How are we going to eat while wearing masks?
F: It's okay, I'm not contagious.

(╯° □°) ╯︵ ┻━┻

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With all this talk of #Bluesky vs. #Mastodon, I'd like to take this moment to remind everyone that the fediverse is bigger than just Mastodon.

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How much does the aurora borealis weigh?
It's pretty light.

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The reason so many firms push so hard to get you to use their phone apps rather than their websites is that the depth of invasive personal data they can gather via the apps is usually enormous in comparison.

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Ever had a restaurant deny you the discount they offer repeat customers because it's only available via their spyware app or via a dodgy QR code?

It's a good way to destroy your customer base.

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cult brainwashing (trigger warning)

I found some of my old notes from church. God, I really drank the Kool-Aid, didn't I?

Here's a sample:

When I negotiate my standards, I cheat myself of the blessings the Lord wants to give me.


🤮🤮🤮

"The blessings he wants to give me?" Isn't he supposed to be an omnipotent being? I had no idea I was so powerful that I could tie his hands like that.

#ExMormon #apostake #NotACult

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cult brainwashing (trigger warning)

I also love how I was able to take down an idea, and then immediately contradict myself with the next one, e.g.:

- Heavenly Father did not put me here to fail.
- A failure is nothing more than an opportunity to learn.


This is the definition of doublethink.



Katy bought a bread slicer, so obviously I had to make a loaf of #sourdough #today to test it out.

Why does it have to take so long to cool?

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Trying out #Friendica's #Bluesky bridge. If you've been followed there by @jlamothe.bsky.social, that's me.

Let's see if this post actually shows up there.

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For sure, I’d rather keep following you here. I just wanted to confirm your bridge is working but wasn’t sure if I was doing something wrong or your setup is somehow incomplete 🤷
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@ilyess It looks like there's a bit of lag in the bridge, but I guess that's to be expected.

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@Aziz @Jon's Blog Yeah, for me, it's about the auto-repeating tasks. I can't get that with pen and paper, otherwise I'd go that route too.

I'm trying to take the lowest tech route possible these days.

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@me
"I'm trying to take the lowest tech route possible these days."

Exactly.


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Bluesky is the Microsoft Word of social media, which I mean in the derogatory sense, as the fediverse is the LaTeX of social media, which I also mean in the derogatory sense
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I think this all aligns with the fact that Facebook remains the Facebook of social media.
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@jenn I’m still searching for the troff of social media.
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Just had a monitor fail in the most bizarre way posible. I got some weird screen flicker/tearing. I assumed that it was my video card doing someting wonky, especially since it would happen sporadically when playing Minetest, and would often persist for a while after. A reboot cleared it the first time it happened.

This time it was really bad though. The weird thing is that when I disconnected the HDMI cable, the distortion persisted on the OSD. Also, there was still very distinct remnant of the image that had been on the screen. It wasn't your typical burn-in, as it wasn't static. It was just... weird.



It's been over a year now since my last blog post. #Today I started working on a new one about my adventures with #org-mode. As an experiment, I'm trying to compose the post itself in org-mode, and then export to HTML for the site.

Depending on how reasonable the resulting HTML ends up being, this might be my go-to method of composing blog posts going forward.


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Worse than back to square one. I can't access it through a browser either.
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Hopped over to another server and all's well again. We'll see for how long.

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Friendly reminder to folks on Fedi: the engagement *you* see on a post might not be the engagement the *poster* sees.

Take my silly polls, for instance. I occasionally see comments saying "you'd have more responses if it said [variable]".

Those commenters probably can't see the responses, so they assume few are responding.

My last poll has over 1200 responses, but federation might not show *you* all of them. And that's OK! But don't assume what you see is what others see here.

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I'm wondering if showing the number of replies, boosts and likes should be deprecated unless it is viewed on the original page. Right now I see the number of boosts at 3 and 0 likes for your post but if I see the post on linuxmom.net then it is over 200 and 300 respectively. When the numbers are that far apart what is even the point?


Just got my sample ink pack in the mail, and I've got to say Diamine Ruby Blues might be my new favourite ink. The photos online don't do it justice. The ink changes colour depending on the angle you look at it from. Is this a more common thing than I realize?
#FountainPens
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are you describing sheen? Reddish pink color where the ink pools?
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@paradoxmo It uses the word "sheen" on the website, but the colour actually changes depending on the angle it's looked at from, which is why a photo would never do it justice.

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@redbanjer 🪕 My two suppliers of choice are Phidon (a local-ish brick and mortar store) and Goulet Pens. Though I've recently heard good things about Jet Pens (I think) but I've no experience with them.


mh
Hit negative spoon territory. Didn't know that was possible. Calling it a night. Hopefully I don't start tomorrow at a defecit.

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Just ordered an "inkvent" calendar because apparently they sell out fast. Now I just have to restrain myself from opening it until December. Fortunately I ordered a random sample pack as well, so we have something to keep us occupied in the meantime.
#FountainPens

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Cynthia loves masks
thank you, I look forward to what you share.
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Welp, I had hoped this would arrive before the Canada Post strike. I guess not.

That's unfortunate.




I think, for the sake of my mental health, I'm going to take a step away from the news and social media for a bit.

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Was mostly successful at this today. Winding the night down with some tea and a good book.

We'll see how I'm feeling tomorrow.

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I did the same, for the same reason. And I too was *mostly* successful. One day at a time…

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stop doomscrolling for a second and look at this cutie. he doesn’t even know what an election is.
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No, he knows! He just doesn't care. But I see your point ☺️


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non-ADHD advice given to ADHD people is always like "here's one neat trick for doing the thing: just do the thing"

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"too much mental load? Simply reduce your mental load by writing a to do list"

It's like they don't know that writing a to do list exponentially increases mental load for someone with ADHD

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@schratze wait they do? I thought there was something wrong with me cause everyone keeps telling me to make lists specifically as a way to deal with my ADHD 💀

Even other people with ADHD have told me this

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@hazelnot @schratze In the neurotypical way, yes, they absolutely do, they (among other things) create a loop of self-punishment for "not having done enough" which negatively affects executive function further, and can create an overwhelming sense of a never-ending list of stuff to do such that you can't even start on a single thing, to just name a couple of the ways in which (monolithic) todo lists (as often suggested) can make things worse for ADHD
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@hazelnot @schratze There are ways to use todo lists to your advantage but those work very differently from the widely-recommended "todo list" concept
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@hazelnot @schratze I mentioned this in more detail in social.pixie.town/@joepie91/11… but the way I can make todo lists work for me is to reframe their purpose as one of "relieving me from chores" rather than "assigning me chores"

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Every time papa cleans and re-inks his pens I must supervise. I don't know why he keeps trying to stop me.

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Broke my #LambdaMOO sushi bar by accidentally going over quota trying to add a requested item to the menu.

Don't have time to fix it at the moment, but I'll take care of it in the next couple days.

Sorry @screwlisp et. al.

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