We've all heard the tale of how to own a Nazi bar, i'm fairly sure.
I was drumming up interest in a local board game group i really enjoy, on my local queer Discord server. I got some interest.
Someone on the board games group's server asked "why did you make a point about us being queer friendly?" Not rudely, just curious.
"Because a lot of community groups are invisibly closed to us. We daren't reveal ourselves because of antipathy to queer folk. This place doesn't do that, at all. So i tell people it's safe, and they feel more comfy coming along."
Someone said, "Oh, so it's like the Nazi bar story, only good." I thought for a moment, and they're right. Sort of. Because unlike Nazis, queer folk aren't an invasive species. We don't push people out. Assholes just self-select choosing not to be associated with a bar that's queer-friendly.
Which is fine, system working as designed.
So...how do we tell the tale of the Queer-friendly bar, and the positive feedback loop that can occur when a business is explicitly friendly to queer folk?
Cause I think that could be a simple, true, and effective point about the great difference between choosing to be nice to Nazis instead of queer folk. Or vice versa, being nice to queers and bum-rushing the Nazis.
The Nazi Bar story is one we all know. Anyone got a proposal for how to do a good tale of how the bar got so lively? "Oh, I bought a drink for this gay fella once, and soon there were loads. But they're great guys, and if ya tell them no, they stop bugging ya, which is giving me weird feelings about how I treat women. And we get a lot fewer assholes, too."
Someone? Got a seed for the good story lurking here? I wanna make us some rippin' good properganda.
Dr Paris (he/him)
in reply to Dr Paris (he/him) • • •it's on the orange site if you can spare an upvote too
news.ycombinator.com/item?id=4โฆ
Apple has locked my Apple ID, and I have no recourse. A plea for help | Hacker News
news.ycombinator.comCharlie McHenry
in reply to Dr Paris (he/him) • • •Scott Williams ๐ง
in reply to Charlie McHenry • • •gentlegardener
in reply to Dr Paris (he/him) • • •WesDym
in reply to gentlegardener • • •Jonathan Lamothe doesn't like this.
Jonathan Lamothe
in reply to WesDym • •WesDym
in reply to Jonathan Lamothe • • •@me OP had 20 years to set up local storage for up to 6TB. 8TB currently goes for under $300. They could have, but didn't, instead naรฏvely putting their trust in a giant faceless corporation who doesn't care about them or anyone. OP is an 'expert' who apparently didn't back up important and irreplaceable data in a form they controlled directly, even though they easily could have.
I read it. What point do you believe you're making?
Jonathan Lamothe
in reply to WesDym • •WesDym
in reply to Jonathan Lamothe • • •PerryM โ
in reply to WesDym • • •@wesdym @me Pardon me guys for butting in but I wondered 1) if the data was crucial why O did not back it up and 2) why did he so obviously, as a guest, take a dump on Apple's carpet! I mean, when you're a guest ...
WesDym
in reply to PerryM โ • • •@PerryM Apple wronged him, no doubt, but any other huge company would just as readily. It's not even relevant, in my mind, which company was involved.
OP could have easily avoided this whole drama if they'd backed up critical data locally, which they clearly know enough about, could almost certainly afford, and had 20 years to do it.
Sympathy only goes so far. At some point, it's fair to point out mistakes like this, if only so that others might learn from their errors and not repeat them.
PerryM โ
in reply to WesDym • • •WesDym
in reply to PerryM โ • • •@PerryM I know you're not this stupid. If you read the piece, you definitely know better, and you should be embarrassed to offer this argument. You should also be grown up enough not to write this badly to anyone who's invited your commentary.
Take 30 days.
Jonathan Lamothe
in reply to WesDym • •@WesDym
*sigh*
From the article:
WesDym
in reply to Jonathan Lamothe • • •Jonathan Lamothe
in reply to WesDym • •@WesDym I'm not saying he shouldn't have backed up. I'm saying the self-righteous bullshit is exhausting.
I'm tapping out. Have a nice day.
WesDym
in reply to Jonathan Lamothe • • •Negative12DollarBill
in reply to Jonathan Lamothe • • •Jonathan Lamothe
in reply to Negative12DollarBill • •Negative12DollarBill
in reply to Jonathan Lamothe • • •Jonathan Lamothe
in reply to Negative12DollarBill • •@Negative12DollarBill @WesDym You can't make phone calls if you can't unlock your phone, can you? Again, I don't know how this actually works in practice. I'm just saying they absolutely could.
My partner had an iPad that had been locked to her ex's account. It was for all intents and purposes completely bricked to us.
WesDym
in reply to Jonathan Lamothe • • •Yeah, but 'bricked' is an issue specific to local hardware, not external control systems such as the telco or mfr. It means it won't start up, for anyone.
Misusing this term this way would be like me saying that someone taking my car key from me is the same as the engine seizing up. In the latter case, NO ONE can start it.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brick_(eโฆ
totally non-functional electronic device
Contributors to Wikimedia projects (Wikimedia Foundation, Inc.)WesDym
in reply to Jonathan Lamothe • • •gentlegardener
in reply to Jonathan Lamothe • • •@me @wesdym yes I did. Loads of ways for less informed users to lose everything
And yes there s risk in everything and anything.
Jonathan Lamothe
in reply to gentlegardener • •Glen Mastodon โ
in reply to Dr Paris (he/him) • • •Jonathan Lamothe likes this.
I am Jack's Found 404
in reply to Glen Mastodon โ • • •@viktorTheBoar
There are already some well documented medical device incidents:
spectrum.ieee.org/bionic-eye-oโฆ
Their Bionic Eyes Are Now Obsolete and Unsupported
Eliza Strickland (IEEE Spectrum)DG1JAN ๐ช๐บ
in reply to Dr Paris (he/him) • • •Jonathan Lamothe doesn't like this.
eli (หeฬหli), vampire kitsune
in reply to DG1JAN ๐ช๐บ • • •glad you have the luxury and privilege to spend exorbitant amounts of time fucking with linux servers but not all of us do.
btw i noticed you arent the admin of your instance. also your site and code is hosted on github (microsoft).
@parisba
DG1JAN ๐ช๐บ
in reply to eli (หeฬหli), vampire kitsune • • •@rowan btw. If you have a second look, I also host my public project at #codeberg and I'm running a private Forgejo instance for my own stuff.
I don't consider mastodon as important, so no need for self hosting. Prefer to support the radiosocial admin directly.